As of about a month ago I began using a daily devotional book by the title We Brake For Joy along with my bible in the morning and evening.It is a combination of six Women of Faith crew who has made thousands of women laugh,lighten up,and face the challenges of life with a smile.We Brake For Joy is a devotional straight from the hearts of these six extraordinary women.Each devotion includes a Scripture passage,a meditation,a closing prayer,and wisdom from traveling companions who know how tough the journey can be-and how God is.Patsy Clairmont...is the author of such best-selling books as Sportin' a "Tude.She lives in Brighton,Michigan. Barbara Johnson....is the author of numerous best-selling books,including Living Somewhere Between Estrogen and Death.She lives in La Habra,California. Luci Swindoll....... is the former vice-president of public relations for Insight for Living and the author of many books,including Celebrating Life.She lives in Palm Desert,California. Sheila Walsh......is a well-known author whose books include Honestly and Bring Back the Joy.She lives in Nashville,Tennessee. Thelma Wells...... is an internationally known corporate keynote speaker,president of her own company,and author of God Will Make A Way.She lives in Dallas,Texas.
One particular devotional written by Marilyn Meberg really tickled my funny bone and had a very good follow up with verse and prayer.I have looked back at it different times because it tickled me and helped talk to me in this particlar area of my life.This morning I sat here and read it to Dan and talked alittle about it.We thought of a few different ones who we could see having fun doing the same thing and having their funny bones tickled by it also.I decided I would like to share it with you all.Here goes.
PARTY OF FOUR
Marilyn Meberg
Therefore be clear minded and self-controlled
1 Peter 4:7
Last night, I had the fun of buying my grandson Ian his first tricycle.Feeling celebratory, I asked my friend Pat,who had accompanied me on this excursion,if she felt like popping into the pizza place across the parking lot and taking a pizza to my house.
Neither of us was prepared for the inefficiency and confusion that characterized every young person working at the restaurant.After we had waited fifteen minutes to place our order, four different people eventually made an effort to attend to it. With difficulty, one person finally understood that I didn't want two but only one medium pepperoni pizza with thin crust.Another worker asked if it was "for here or to go" while someone else gave me change from my twenty-dollar bill. Yet another worker with sauce on his wrist asked if I'd like to see a menu.
Leaning on the "Please Wait to Be Seated Sign,"I asked Pat if she saw anything on the walls stating "We hire the incompetent." Seeing nothing,we decided they hadn't gotten around to posting their policy yet.
Oddly enough,either through ignorance or compassion about the restaurant policy,people started to pour in the front door and stood about waiting to be seated. Since none of the confused workers felt inclined to host, I thought it only charitable to help out. Grabbing a few menus, I asked the two people at the head of the line to please follow me,and I'd be happy to seat them. Then,after seating a party of four, I noticed Pat had disappeared.I spotted her seating a party of three on the other side of the salad bar. Relieved to have cleared out our waiting space, we settled in to wait for our pizza.
Ten minutes later Pat nudged me "Marilyn,that party of four you seated over by the window is pointing at you and looking pretty hostile."
"They probably don't know the restaurant policy.Maybe I should go tell them." I walked over to their table hoping to diffuse their anger.
One of the men, in an argumentative tone,asked,"Do you work here?"
"Well,actually,no. I was waiting for my pizza."
"Why did you seat us?"
"Somebody needed to."
The couple sitting at the table next to this crabby foursome,and whom I had seated first, were smiling broadly as they listened to this exchange."We wondered why a hostess was wearing jeans and a sweatshirt," the woman said,"but we were more interested in sitting down than inquiring about your uniform."
At that moment my name was called, and amazingly enough,I was handed one medium,pepperoni pizza with thin crust.I walked over to the fun couple and said,"I just paid ten dollars for this pepperoni pizza.I'll sell it to you for twelve."
"Does it have anchovies?"
"If it had anchovies,I'd give it to you!"We laughed and they thanked me for at least a place to sit and said they would leave in a few more minutes to go down the street to Coco's.
Glancing at the still glowering party of four,I said,"Your waitress should be with you any day now. Enjoy your meal." I then bolted for the door.
Pat and I giggled all the way home over that crazy interlude.We agreed that the foursome had appeared crabby when they walked in.It wasn't just the lack of service or even my obnoxious behavior that set them off.They undoubtedly lived their lives in a state of perpetual annoyance.
Choosing not to be annoyed by life's annoyances is admittedly difficult at times.I often have to remind myself that I have a choice in how I'm going to respond.I'm not talking about denying my feelings and stuffing them away so they can later come back as a headache or a mystifying body rash.I'm suggesting that once I identify the feeling,I can choose to take control of it instead of its taking control of me.I'm also talking about those pesky annoyances that have the potential to join forces so that by the end of the day they have become one big party of four.
First Peter 4:7 reminds me to be clear minded and self-controlled. If my mind becomes cluttered by the day's annoyances,it's a given that sooner or later I'm going to lose my self-control.If I lose my self-control,for sure I'm going to lose my joy.I hate losing my joy.Fortunately, I have a choice in how I react: just like I have a choice in where not to go for pizza.
The Prayer:
"Thanks for reminding me,Lord,that I don't have to let the small stuff rob me of joy.When I keep my mind centered on who you are and who you are to me,it settles me down and enables me to smile instead of frown. Keep me ever mindful of your loving support through the annoying events of each day.May I reflect who you are instead of who I am. Amen"